The Housewife:
Our second story is not about a countess, but rather a British housewife.

Meet Nella Last. Nella was a diarist for Mass Observation, a social research organization launched in January 1937. Billed as the “anthropology of ourselves,” Mass Observation had a national panel of volunteers who replied to regular questionnaires on a variety of questions. Approximately 480 of these diaries were written during World War II. Nella’s diary has been much studied, with scholars releasing four volumes of her writings. In addition, her diaries were the basis of Housewife, 49, a British movie released in 2006.
Reading Nella’s diaries, one can see how her life grew to embrace the war effort. The mother of two grown sons, her life had been rather limited by her husband’s cranky personality. However, once she joined the Women’s Voluntary Services, things changed for her. Now, the WVS was an organization that was originally focused on training women to help with air raid precautions in the lead up to World War II. By the end of the war, this organization was running emergency rest centers, feeding people and administering first aid, and assisting with the evacuation and billeting of children. According the BBC, one in every 10 British women was a member of this organization, the so-called “army Hitler forgot.”
Nella’s work in her community of Barrow-in-Furness included organising raffles to raise money, working for Central Hospital Supply Service and providing ‘comforts’ and other goods for the Sailors’ Home. She worked on both the “Jolly Roger,” a mobile canteen, and later in a stationary canteen. As the war progresses, she helps set up a Red Cross shop in Barrow, the proceeds from which were intended to raise money for its Prisoner of War Fund. She does all this even though she is tired and scared, even though she has to stand in line waiting for rationed food, even though she’s sick of having a bomb shelter in her living room.
According to the editors of The Diaries of Nella Last: Writing in War and Peace (2012), her war work “[G]ave her a sense of purpose; it helped her to feel worthwhile – and to be acknowledged by others. It had been a sort of anchor; it liberated her from the constraints of domesticity –‘the cage of household duties alone’, as she once put it (15 August 1945). In many ways the war changed her life.” Nella, writing in March 1943, writes: ‘My job – or rather jobs – are all volunteering but I love them and the Red Cross shop is a great pleasure to me even if a great deal of work. I don’t feel I could ever settle down entirely to be a housewife again.’
Nella is another example of perseverance and grit.
Source: Last, Nella. (2012). The Diaries of Nella Last: Writing in War and Peace. Malcolmson, P., & Malcolmson, R., Editors. [Kindle Android version]. Profile Books.
See also: The BBC’s archived page about Nella’s diary. I’m not sure how long this will still be available.
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